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Anonymous asked: thank you for the advice that was really helpful :) <3

no problem doll, hope everything goes good. <3

-B.L 

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Anonymous asked: hey, so i have a problem recently i joined the carnival not literally but at ribfest there is this haunted house thing and im volunteering now. the reason that i volunteered is because i thought it would be fun to be scaring people instead of being scared for once. i thought the way it was put together was really cool and after going through 4 times i couldnt wait to join. i know your wondering why i would pay to see something ive already seen but you see there was this cute guy and my friends wanted to see him. so i went along. at first i was like yea hes cute. now when i went through the first time i was brought to tears cuz i was so scared. and in order to continue i felt the need to have a male there with me. so i asked if he could hold my hand. and he did so. see the rules are that your not allowed to touch anyone no matter what. he could have gotten fired. so i managed to get a job for the last day of ribfest, and we hung out in stuff on our break, then during a scare some douche asked me to show him my tits. after the guy left he came in and asked my partner who he said that to and i said me he then punched a wall and when i asked him why hes so upset he replied that it was my first day and guys shouldn't be treating my like a trophy and that it was disrespectful. so im starting to get a little crush on him the only problem is that sadly i have a boyfriend. now ive been trying to break up with him for a while now but ever since school ended i haven spoken to him apparently hes to busy to answer my messages on fb but hes not busy when it comes to posting videos on fb, and i know if he was put in any of the places his other guy was he would have been a jerk about it. anyway when i broke the news to my friends they all got really upset at me and now im afraid that if i go through with breaking up with him ill lose some of my best friends so now what do i do? break up with him and lose friends or miss the chance on a great guy and ruin most of my summer?

Okay, first of all in my point of view if you were to break up with your boyfriend and you’d loose you’re bestfriends, they aren’t really you’re bestfriends in the first place. Bestfriends are supposed to help you and are supposed to be there for you and they have to be happy for you for whatever you choose to do in your life. (this is my point of view) Now you have to step back and think about if you really want to break up with your boyfriend, if you do and if thats what your heart wants (not your head) then go for it no ones stopping you baby girl. If you really like the other guy then you should go for it, no ones stopping you from being happy because you deserve to be happy. And those “bestfriends” you have, if they tell you anything to brim you down DO NOT pay attention to them. They’re not worth it because bestfriends are suppose to be happy for you, not bringing you down or stopping being friends with you over a GUY. This is my point of view, you don’t have to do anything of this but remember to always always ALWAYS listen to your heart not your head. Hope this helped, stay beautiful.

-B.L